Criticism has a way of grabbing your attention when it is negative causing the reaction, stop judging me!
It takes wisdom and discernment to render sound judgement from a position of constructive criticism.
Constructive criticism applied to your circumstances helps to give you an edge up on competitors.
Sound judgement from wisdom carries with it the experience and expertise of knowledgable decisions, tested and proven in the trenches.
You are more willing to listen to advice from those who knowingly judge well.
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A story has been in my mind for several years after a man appeared in the emergency room of our mental health center referred by his family members.
The young man had been abusing drugs for some time giving his family grief related to drug abuse.
Household and personal items had been disappearing on a regular basis.
Altercations with family caused his visit to our center on this particular evening.
Mental health centers must prove a patient is a danger to himself or others, beyond a reasonable doubt, to detain the client for further psychiatric evaluation.
Staff explained to the client before admitting him as a patient into the hospital, the reasons he would be spending the evening at our facility.
On several occasions the young man stated, “NO ONE’S WRONG ALL THE TIME ARE THEY?”
Down the hall with the elevator closing you could still hear his cry, “no one’s wrong all the time are they?”
Out of touch with reality due to drug abuse, the patient was saying to the world stop judging me.
At some level he understood his actions were wrong but felt somewhere in life there must be something he was doing that was acceptable to his community and family members.
Drugs or alcohol have a way of nullifying an opinion or decision because it is not based upon careful thought.
The patient’s demons were the reason for his unscheduled visit to the emergency room.
Even in our business dealings we will not move forward with speed if our decisions are more wrong than right.
Indecision and projects half done will scuttle any ship where decisive maneuvers are required to avoid deadly mines that blow you out of the water.
Accepting constructive criticism will move you forward.
Stop judging me should only apply to negative and destructive criticism.
From the Diary of my enlightenment,
A.L. Clark, D.D.S. http://dentist4you.biz